Learning Modules
Modelling - Replicating Successful Strategies All behaviour has a structure If they can do it, so can you Creating a model for driving a car Observing and mapping the successful behaviours of others Eliciting success: a strategy to reach the desired state What do they do How do they do it Why do they do it Behaviour Thinking processes Beliefs
Your Map of The World Experiencing the world through the five senses Representational Systems The map is not the territory How filters are formed Beliefs Attitudes Experiences Influences Towards and away from filters The proactive/reflective filter Internal and external frames of reference BIG chunks and little chunks Changing Beliefs and limitations Representational system words and phrases (predicates) Your Brain! How you store, process, and retrieve information Eye accessing cues
The Structure of Matching Communication is more than what you are saying Whole body matching Part body matching Vocal matching Verbal pacing and sequencing
Powerful Language Patterns Word-power: how to use indirect suggestion Careful phrasing and embedded commands Positioning yourself and your ideas, concept or solution in the mind of the person you are influencing Using the Meta Model to gather information |
Learning Modules
No Words Needed - Sensory Acuity Looking for clues Incongruence and states Calibrating body language Matching and mis matching
Accessing and Re-Accessing Representations The resources you need to effect change are within Creating anchors Having the greatest potential range of states available to you Feeling your best whenever your abilities are being challenged Accelerate the rapport building process
Changing your view How to reframe your undesirable behaviour Separating problematic behaviour from the positive intent Identifying new choices and generating new behaviours Video playback or fast phobia cures
People Work perfectly! No one is "Broken" Finding out how people function Stimulating a response Using Metaphor My friend John
Perceptual Positions Look at it this way The thinking patterns of others Adopting the thoughts, feeling and behaviour of others Behavioural cause and effect Managing your own indecisiveness Negotiating with your personality
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